No, she’s not only “going via a period. “
1. Yes, she is actually bisexual. You’dn’t keep asking a right girl you had been dating if she was “really” straight, right? Yeah, it is simply as strange to perform that up to a woman that is bisexual.
2. As well as on top of irritating concerns, she probably experiences an unique kind of identification erasure. Whenever I’m away during the films with David, the high, hairy, right guy, culture assumes that I’m a right girl. Whenever I’m down at a queer club covered in glitter and making down with Lauren, the lesbian I’m seeing, culture assumes I’m a lesbian that is femme. As either straight or gay while I enjoy dating people like David and people like Lauren, both experiences often include bi erasure, or society’s desire to categorize me. As a total outcome, we usually feel unseen. You can help her feel close to her identity by encouraging her to stay involved in the bi community and not making the mistake of assuming she’s straight or gay now based upon your own orientation if you’re dating a bisexual woman. (más…)